In and Out — A Time for Everything

Following a restless, topsy-turvy, mostly sleepless night earlier in the week, I developed a headache seemingly out of nowhere the next afternoon. By evening my insides were so stormy that venturing more than ten feet from the bathroom was much too risky a trip to venture out on.

After a much better rest the following night, I woke the next morning feeling refreshed, perky, and noticeably better, with creative writing ideas flowing so fast I struggled to jot them all down, not to forget. My writing muse and brain racing to make up for lost time.

Then in my morning reading, I opened to the 29th verse of the Tao Te Ching from Lao Tzu over 2,500 years ago as relayed by Dr. Wayne Dyer, and was reminded that just as we must first breathe in to then breathe out, everything has a time, in a natural order.

” Everything under heaven is a sacred vessel and cannot be controlled.

Trying to control leads to ruin. Trying to grasp, we lose.

Allow your life to unfold naturally.

Know that it too is a vessel of perfection.

Just as you breathe in and breathe out, there is a time for being ahead and a time for being behind;

A time for being in motion and a time for being at rest;

A time for being vigorous and a time for being exhausted;

A time for being safe and a time for being in danger.”

We must experience feeling behind in order to later appreciate being ahead. It is the natural way of things.  I more fully appreciated how wonderful and creative I felt that morning, after experiencing the disorders of the day before. And such is life.

When confronted with challenges and faced with upheavals in life, I  recall what my Mother used to always say at such times — “This too, shall pass.”

All of the times when we have experienced the discomfort of sadness, betrayal, abuse, disappointment, fear, frustration, anxiety, illness, or being incomplete somehow; later led to our appreciation of feeling well, whole, safe, protected, comforted, and loved.

The verse from Lao Tzu reminded me of the same sentiment echoed in the Bible, from Ecclesiastes 3:1 —

“To everything, there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.”

From the wisdom of the ages, there is a time for everything, including what we are experiencing in each of our lives today.  It is good to keep that in mind as we go thru the inevitable ups-and-downs of life, that every moment is proceeding and in accordance with the natural order and way of things. Would we appreciate a glass of water so much had we never been thirsty? We delight coming in to the warmth of the fireplace after shoveling heaps of snow in the howling winds of winter.

I went to bed sick and woke up well, and felt amazingly wonderful in comparison. If things are not the rosiest at this moment in your life or if you journey down a rough road in the coming year — breathe in, and then breathe out — taking comfort that just as “out” follows “in”, there is a time for all things and every purpose. Every morning births a new day full of hope, potential, and opportunities.

“No matter how desperate the predicament is, I am always very much in earnest about clutching my cane, straightening my derby hat and fixing my tie, even though I have just landed on my head. Nothing                     is permanent in this wicked world — not even our troubles.”                         – Charlie Chaplin

This morning I am thankful this piece was typed yesterday and only needing to be published today. Living with arthritis and a progressively degenerative disk and joint disease, I woke up this morning unable to close or move my left hand. But it will be better tomorrow. Or the next day. Or next week. That’s how it goes. In the meantime, I will give it a rest, read, and focus on activities not requiring Lefty’s participation for the time being. Righty just added an old-fashioned, one-fingered paragraph all on his own.

It is difficult many times to try to stay positive and keep the faith, believing that all is proceeding in natural order when we find ourselves down on scraped knees and elbows from falling yet again, but if we can just remember to look up we will see the road still open and laid out before us. So we summon our courage, rise, and carry on once again, trusting there is a time for everything and that if we stay on the journey and task ahead, this too will pass and a new day dawn tomorrow.

Thanks for visiting with us today!  A smile or kind gesture can turn someone’s day or entire life around. As Maya Angelou urged — “Be a rainbow in somebody else’s cloud today!”  And be the change you wish to see in the world. — Jim  (and Red!)

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“The goal of life is living in agreement with nature.” – Zeno of Citium, Greek philosopher

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15 thoughts on “In and Out — A Time for Everything

  1. Excl. 3:1 is one of my favorite passages from the bible. It reminds us there is an appointed time and place for everything. Like the comments before me “This too shall pass,” Was a phrase echoed in the The house is growing up. I still say that along with, the worst day of your life only lasts for 24hrs. Thanks for sharing your positivity despite your adversities! Wishing tomorrow is better than yesterday.

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    • Thanks for visiting, Carmela! That was one of my Mother’s favorite passages, too. She would quote it often, among many others too numerous to list. She was always a very positive, “don’t let life get you down” type person. I think I caught it from her. Every day is a wonderful day. It’s just how we choose to approach it that makes all the difference. 😀


  2. Wonderful to read your amazing positive attitude in such adversity James. I too, try to stay optimistic in life although I admit in recent times this has been difficult. I am hoping our troubles from the last two years have almost passed and in 2018 we can move forward and breathe easier. All the best for a successful and healthy year ahead.

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    • Thanks for visiting with us, Cat! We always have two choices which we can make in any situation or circumstance in life — Be Happy — Or Not. Happy is better. And more fun. Frown wrinkles are not my best look, so I choose to be Happy. I highly recommend it. Wishing you and yours all the best! 🙂


  3. I loved this article, Jim. It relays on such an importance message. I’m also happy to hear you are feeling better and refreshed with your creative juices inspired. Focusing on the positive aspects in our life is key. When I was suddenly diagnosed with epilepsy in 2007, my life changed forever. I learned the importance of always looking for the beauty in each day, because tomorrow is never promised.

    Wishing you kindness, peace, and beauty in your life.

    In friendship,


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  4. Loved this piece you shared today James! Like Julie said, “This too shall pass” is a phrase that I have to remind myself often.
    Dr. Dyer was an amazing man and I know when I see his name, it’s going to be good! I’m glad you have felt inspired by him as well.

    Thanks again and enjoy your weekend.

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    • Thanks for visiting with us and for your continued encouragement and support, Rosie! Personally, I find the “This too shall pass” phrase immeasurably comforting whenever in the dentist’s chair. Best wishes and have a wonderful weekend! 🙂


  5. What gems you shared with all those who may be going through a difficult time. My mother also used that phrase, “This too shall pass,” to comfort me and I still chant it when life is hard. Thanks for sharing your positivity despite your adversities!

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